my boyfriend has depression when it comes to school, and lately he has been awkward... what should i do?

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asked Oct 26, 2015 in Family & Relationships by gabby99 (150 points)
my boyfriend has depression when it comes to school, and lately he has been awkward and silent because of that. I even spoke to his mother about that and she said he hasn't been quite well this days... And he doesn't speak to me, or her either. I'm really worried about him, it takes days for him to answer my messages. What should i do?
P.s.: we have a long distance relationship and we only see each other 4 in 4 months... It sucks but i love him very much
I'm also worried he breaks up with me and i get sad just to think of that, how do I know if he will or won't break up?

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answered Oct 27, 2015 by soccer123543 (920 points)
Suggest dates that are stress relievers. Maybe get him away from work. I find that if you work for two long you aren't as efficient as if u take breaks. Maybe create fun ways to study, so it isn't as tedious. I create games and I learned better. I hope that helps and good luck.
commented Oct 27, 2015 by gabby99 (150 points)
Yes it helped, thanks. Another thing... He is really forgetful so he doesn't remember our anniversary dates... Is it bad..??
commented Oct 28, 2015 by Rocko43 (240 points)
People  with depression are very forgetful. It comes  with the disease. Its not a bad thing  at all. He cant help it
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answered Oct 28, 2015 by Ancheeh (230 points)
The best thing you can do to a person with depression (im guessing he has anxiety as well since it seems to be also school related) is to reasure them that you love them or that it's going to be fine. Just sending messages like that once in a while is extremly nice. Maybe don't focus on dates so much 'cause to a person in that state it's weary to prepare for en occasion. It doesnt sound like mutch but to them it is.  When you meet him dont talk about things you don't have to right then. Reasure him in every possible way you can and make sure he feels understood. With that and some other tips you two should be fine. Best of luck!
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answered Dec 25, 2015 by Ellie. 58 (400 points)
Always tell him how much he's loved and try ur best to help him through it. My best friend was going through depression a while ago, and she cut me off for a while. Make sure u keep an eye omn him, or ask someone he know that is near him to make sure he isn't hurting himself. Everything will work out in the end, and it will get better. Everything happens for a reason.
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answered Jun 29, 2016 by Tomboy119 (230 points)
One possibility is he cheated the second possibility is that he doesn't like you the third possibility is that he probably doesn't want to be in a relationship .

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