My ex called me after not speaking for two months he may have a brain tumor and wants me by his side in case things go south do I fulfill his wishes or let him go through it all on his own

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asked Jan 24, 2016 in Health by charlieadrianmaddy (120 points)
He also wants to get back together, which he asked me before telling me he might have a brain tumor and I told him I would need to think about it

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answered Jan 24, 2016 by SamanthaJox (2,980 points)
If you still care about him then you should help him. You don't have to get back together just because you are helping him through a bad time.
If he really doesn't mean anything to you anymore, then you just have to let him go through it on his own, as horrible as that sounds.
commented Jan 24, 2016 by charlieadrianmaddy (120 points)
The main reason why he called me was to apologize for how he ended our relationship and that he wants to work things out and get back together. He just told me last night he found out last week he might have a brain tumor but won't know until this coming Tuesday. He still wants to get back together and wants me by his side if things go south. I told him I've already lost you once so why should I take you back if I'm just going to lose you again? He said I won't lose him again because he's not going anywhere. For some strange reason I feel like he only contacted me asking to get back together is because he is sure he does have a brain tumor and doesn't have anyone besides his son to be there with and for him through everything, but I have kids myself so why put them through the emotional stress from the physical and emotional stress I would be going through?
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answered Mar 21, 2016 by Yayaofficialz (780 points)
If you have monet he might just use you for monet or he just loves you and wants you by his side
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answered Jun 16, 2016 by Krissy420 (290 points)
Where r u from and what's his name because my bf has told me he has a brain tumor and idk I believe it but hes always acting suspicious calliing me a cheater and shit i thinknhe may be cheating on me.
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answered Jul 25, 2016 by Maddie.lasher (4,230 points)
I think you would be happy he wants you there will him
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answered Sep 2, 2016 by DUMP ACCOUNT2 (7,270 points)
You should go with him.
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answered Dec 3, 2016 by I'm god (1,810 points)
Maybe not get back together unless you are ready for it but being there would definitely be meaningful

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