This can come out a but harsh but I don't mean it like that. Life may seem long, but once you're older it feels short. There are many regrets of things you could've done and things you shouldn't. She can watch motivational videos and all but at the end its all up to her. I say she pinches herself, takes a deep breath, and ask him if he would like to go out somewhere with her. Anywhere, maybe the park, bowling, or boardwalk etc.. What I'm saying is she should do what she knows she wants to do. Its hard to but she should do what her heart desires. Thank you for reading, I hope this helps!