Do you think I am wrong to ask my boyfriend who I have a baby with to help me to cleaning? I'm usually always cleaning up his mess. Otherwise itll sit there and remain there till I do it myself. I tried talking to him about it but he just gets upset and wont answer me or even tell me why he has trouble doing it. When I left to ottawa. I took my daughter with me. I told him to clean up the place since he will be on his own for a week and definetly will have enough time to clean since 1) he has no baby to watch 2) he has alot of time after work to do it. 3) on his own for the weekend Well I came back to find the place a mess. Dishes still in the sink. Garbage packed right full. Dirty. So I get upset about it and asked him why he didnt clean, he has no answer. Then I find out he had my enemies friend in our place visiting while I was gone... so ofc I'm angry about that too. Then today when I went to bed. I woke up a few hours later to see him playing games while everything is a mess. I know I'm gonna have to clean it up cause he wont. But is that really to much to ask? That I want it clean? And don't want people I don't know in our place while I am gone ??